Pete Hegseth's Wife at the Heart of New National Security Firestorm

Pete Hegseth, United States Secretary of Defense, his wife Jennifer Hegseth and United Kingdom Secretary of State for Defense John Healey at the Pentagon, 2025. Photo by U.S. Secretary of Defense. Public domain.

It's not just the missiles flying in Yemen or the scandalous group chats rattling Washington that have tongues wagging in D.C. these days — it's the woman who seems to be everywhere the Secretary of Defense is.

Meet Jennifer Rauchet Hegseth. Former Fox News producer, third wife to Pete Hegseth, and the woman, according to the Daily Mail, Pentagon insiders are now calling "Yoko Ono."

You might not see her name on any official government rosters, but Rauchet's grip on the country's most powerful military man has become a scandal of its own.

Who Is Jennifer Rauchet Hegseth?

Before she was shadowing the Secretary of Defense at NATO summits and Pentagon briefings, Jennifer Rauchet was a senior producer at Fox News. She worked closely with Pete Hegseth during his rise from contributor to co-host on "Fox & Friends Weekend." Like much of Pete's personal life, their relationship didn't follow a clean arc.

When they met, both were married — she was to real estate executive Dennis Rauchet and he was to his second wife Samantha Deering. Things escalated fast. Rauchet got pregnant with Pete's child while he was still on-air and still married. Their daughter, Gwendolyn, was born in August 2017, and they married in 2019 at one of Donald Trump's country clubs.

But the real intrigue began when Pete left cable news and entered the Pentagon.

Pete Hegseth Swearing-In, 2025. Photo by @VP. Public domain.

The 'Yoko Effect' at the Department of Defense

Since Pete Hegseth's Senate-confirmed appointment as Secretary of Defense, Rauchet has rarely left his side. She's tagged along to meetings with foreign officials, sat behind him during Senate hearings, and, according to multiple sources, even inserted herself into messaging decisions and staff communications.

Moreover, according to NBC News, Hegseth forwarded strike details — originally sent securely by CENTCOM Commander Gen. Michael Kurilla — to his wife, brother, attorney, and aides using the Signal app from his personal phone.

According to the Daily Mail, a Defense Department official said, "She's like his parole officer and PR agent all at once."

Another insider said, "She is a human leash."

Her omnipresence has certainly raised eyebrows. According to one official, speaking to CNN and quoted by The Independent, said, "I have never in my professional life seen a spouse sit in on a meeting with counterparts from other countries, where they talk through substantive matters related to our relationship with these foreign militaries."

The Pentagon insists that Rauchet has not attended meetings in which classified information was discussed. However, according to The Independent, Director of the Project on Government Oversight's Center for Defense Information, said Rauchet's presence "raises serious concerns that Hegseth doesn't understand the boundaries between his personal life and professional life."

The Past Still Haunts

Why is Jennifer Rauchet Hegseth keeping Pete on a short leash?

Some believe it stems from Hegseth's long history of scandal. His first marriage ended after multiple affairs, and his second dissolved after he fathered a child with Rauchet.

In 2017, while still married to Deering and weeks before Gwen was born, Hegseth faced accusations of drugging and sexually assaulting a woman during a Republican conference in Monterey, California. He denied the allegation and was never charged but opted to pay the woman $50,000 in a private settlement.

Even his mother weighed in during the fallout. According to the Daily Beast, in a leaked 2018 email to Pete, Penelope Hegseth wrote, "You are an abuser of women — that is the ugly truth and I have no respect for any man that belittles, lies, cheats, sleeps around, and uses women for his own power and ego. You are that man (and have been for years) and as your mother, it pains me and embarrasses me to say that, but it is the sad, sad truth."

Managing the Message — Or the Man?

Observers say Rauchet's constant presence isn't just about optics — it's about control. Sources close to the Pentagon say she helps shape Pete's messaging, urges PR staff to highlight his military credentials, and even advises on his media strategy.

According to one insider cited by the Daily Mail, Rauchet is repeating her role from when she and her husband worked at Fox News by helping him prepare and keeping him supervised. Allegedly, this is also to make sure he maintains his sobriety and fidelity, according to the Daily Mail.

The Fallout — And What Comes Next

For now, Trump stands by his Secretary of Defense, brushing off the scandals. But inside the West Wing, whispers of a replacement are getting louder.

Whether Jennifer Rauchet Hegseth is a devoted wife, an unofficial advisor, or an inappropriate fixture in national security affairs, one thing is clear — she's not going anywhere. Neither is the controversy.

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